Q.	I have two teenage sisters who don’t include me in their lives very much. What should I do? Jennifer, 9 Washington
A.	Older brothers and sisters are the coolest. Sometimes they don’t realize how much you want to spend time with them and be a part of their lives. They can get busy with their own activities and friends and don’t seem to have a place for younger brothers and sisters. But that doesn’t mean they don’t love you or want to spend time with you. They just need their space. You should recognize that there are times when your sisters need to be left alone. Don’t ask to take part in all of their activities. If you act maturely, your sisters will notice and be more likely to include you. They would probably love to spend some quality time with you. Try making a special date with them. Design invitations ahead of time for a "girls’ day out" shopping trip. Or bake some goodies and host a tea party for your sisses. They will probably appreciate you making an effort to be with them. You may also want to tell your parents about your feelings and ask them to plan more family time together—which will benefit everybody. Let your sisters know you like being around them, but remember to give them space when they want to fly solo.
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