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Q. My little brother and I keep having disagreements on the score when we play basketball. When this happens, I usually give in. But I think he might be trying to take advantage of me. What should I do?
Matthew, 11
British Columbia

A. Disagreements on the court can sure give you the basketball blues. Sports are designed to be a fair competition. It sounds like your brother has a hard time losing. But you’re not doing either one of you a favor by giving in and letting him ignore the rules.

Try asking a parent or an older brother or sister to watch your games and keep score. This way, when you have a disagreement, your scorekeeper can settle the debate. When a third person is not available, set up a system for keeping score. Write down each point that is made on a piece of paper, and call out the score before each play to keep track. Keeping an accurate score is a good habit for you and your brother to develop.

If your brother continues to be a poor sport, you may need to refuse to play with him until he’s willing to play fairly.

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