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This girl at my school is weird, annoying and very loud. Most kids call her "Stupid." She thinks I am her best friend, and it embarrasses me when she tells people that. How do I get her to stop thinking I'm her best friend without hurting her for life?
Kristy, 12 Pennsylvania |
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Sounds like this case calls for extreme compassion! You may think it would be impossible to be a friend to this girl, but think about this: If Jesus went to your school, how would He treat her? Many of the people Jesus spent time with were outcasts, but He loved everyone—especially those who were weak and unwanted. Showing compassion doesn’t mean you have to hang out with her all the time. But when she says you are best friends and you feel embarrassment creeping in, surprise the mockers and stand up for her. You could simply say, “We are friends. And you shouldn’t make fun of her.” It may be hard at first, but over time the other kids will notice your kindness and be drawn to your loving spirit—and more importantly to Christ. It’s a big challenge, Kristy, but with God’s help, you can show His love. |
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